tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-84493095642882508712024-03-13T03:02:06.329-05:00The Bachelor LifeA place for men to upgrade their lives.Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.comBlogger89125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-13225411024525813002011-10-28T17:21:00.002-05:002011-10-28T17:23:19.139-05:00End of blog<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-8dWHiZFSX_DHCcaRph8osbh5exD0KyxOeoG5UNH589MWrb6gAaKGkgeDnd-wGcVY4RXFwgaBtqNVMoWHyzC9quLN5vJre0UimkWO4Tqw7QFkWMnMV9sMupa2rz9Sbi8e85HDRFK0g2OY/s1600/princess.png" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 282px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-8dWHiZFSX_DHCcaRph8osbh5exD0KyxOeoG5UNH589MWrb6gAaKGkgeDnd-wGcVY4RXFwgaBtqNVMoWHyzC9quLN5vJre0UimkWO4Tqw7QFkWMnMV9sMupa2rz9Sbi8e85HDRFK0g2OY/s320/princess.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668672144003888530" /></a><br />Haven't updated the blog in a while. It was fun for a while. We've moooved on to new projects. <div><br /></div>Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-12688395413132470942010-12-03T10:58:00.019-06:002010-12-03T11:19:33.155-06:00The power of a makeover<div style="text-align: left;"><div style="text-align: left;">Why do wealthy girls/women look so good compared to regular women?<br /><br />Are they just from a better gene pool?<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaZuLk_2h1UBvx7XhkPT2lZ_ZoxVlapJ68PdytmE5Lz3EaX2PE4NQYPbHm9kFUYxIet1-y3_l-OdB-b7aawNErL1PGyyzT1gqZvqvAQhcbUuMUDeXM3kSYIpid0wDWKIqFnBX_SCIrUcOf/s1600/makeover"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 274px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaZuLk_2h1UBvx7XhkPT2lZ_ZoxVlapJ68PdytmE5Lz3EaX2PE4NQYPbHm9kFUYxIet1-y3_l-OdB-b7aawNErL1PGyyzT1gqZvqvAQhcbUuMUDeXM3kSYIpid0wDWKIqFnBX_SCIrUcOf/s320/makeover" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5546503175044685634" border="0" /></a><br />..................................................................<br /></div><br />The answer is usually simply money.<br /><br />They can afford maintenance (teeth/hair/nails/products), and they have women around them who can show them how to use these expensive things to increase their social value.<br /><br /></div>The above is an excellent demonstration of what happens when you take lower middle class women and process them with a makeover from a very high end salon. Six or seven hundred dollars for just the hair alone is what you are seeing here. Add the makeup/clothes/etc and you're into thousands.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;">Let what you're seeing sink in. Now ask yourself how much different YOU would look if you went to an actual upscale mens' salon instead of the $12 haircut place on the corner.</div>Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-81780537413116054192010-07-08T16:36:00.003-05:002010-07-08T16:38:24.236-05:00Signs you are with the right girl<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQK0a73PgckC19N8dRLKBVUmeXo9AE2V6wq61sy9Ua3ksvwslZHlhc5lt080uXysexLAhf867sHpapmVjCfK6nAgEQ7vOejH_BONDvVyzx5TnErZI9MRTHr4NEIc0DMhNX3NzG5MU74Dbq/s1600/candy_bar_card.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQK0a73PgckC19N8dRLKBVUmeXo9AE2V6wq61sy9Ua3ksvwslZHlhc5lt080uXysexLAhf867sHpapmVjCfK6nAgEQ7vOejH_BONDvVyzx5TnErZI9MRTHr4NEIc0DMhNX3NzG5MU74Dbq/s320/candy_bar_card.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5491652945119193154" /></a><br />The end goal of dating is to find someone you truly, deeply, madly love, forever.<br /><br />Things like this area a strong indicator you are with such a girl. Pay attention kids, this girl rocks.Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-61789654202139666592010-06-17T12:33:00.002-05:002010-06-17T12:34:10.141-05:00Friend Zone<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOzlgQ4fVLVnUUmW7ssuIwRebZTFu_8SFaKat3AEbh4cYv-lZsZ8zLVvR4HntkeFIrk_23kJ17k-3GNS8a1trsgfAeLdQfDSdHop9b_WMFqCIxQGK_UmChPJoDY5qNdXZLdOhVPLciOmiW/s1600/fzone.png"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 74px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOzlgQ4fVLVnUUmW7ssuIwRebZTFu_8SFaKat3AEbh4cYv-lZsZ8zLVvR4HntkeFIrk_23kJ17k-3GNS8a1trsgfAeLdQfDSdHop9b_WMFqCIxQGK_UmChPJoDY5qNdXZLdOhVPLciOmiW/s320/fzone.png" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5483797219194999746" /></a>Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-69981376083703381162010-06-09T14:09:00.003-05:002010-06-10T12:48:19.883-05:00TBL wine list<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtHosL9D_7xhKqhhwdQxazO9MvVjkcipAp5flc84hgLE2gAROFvYuIVI41eG0tAGqJ7eKXPb0vZ8qncYLf6DLek2HvGJD5ud4eQ3THsoGD6moYcQ_vwp41l-njYTgVU2KFjZJZd9RJkl7P/s1600/stockvault_4106_20070301(2).jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtHosL9D_7xhKqhhwdQxazO9MvVjkcipAp5flc84hgLE2gAROFvYuIVI41eG0tAGqJ7eKXPb0vZ8qncYLf6DLek2HvGJD5ud4eQ3THsoGD6moYcQ_vwp41l-njYTgVU2KFjZJZd9RJkl7P/s320/stockvault_4106_20070301(2).jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5481203199406009538" /></a><br />Here is a list compiled for us by a wine afficionado. They are all excellent (85+ points), and all under fifteen dollars.<br /><br />This should be your go to price range and quality for a decent wine to be shared on a date. This is both for when she comes over and you both make dinner, or for you to take to her place.<br /><br /><br /><br />These are current as of 6/9/10. They skew heavily red, but keep in mind some women strongly prefer white. Red with dark meat, white with white meat.<br /><br />Vina bisquertt syrah colchagua valley la joya reserve 2008 - 90 points - $11<br /><br />Darenberg. The stump jump red south australia 2008 - 90 points - $11<br /><br />Vinos de la tribu toro auroch 2006 - 90 points - $12<br /><br />Charles and charles. Volume II rose columbia valley - 90 points - $12<br /><br />Chateau ste. Michelle chardonnay columbia valley 2008 - 90 points - $13 <br /><br />Domaine des escaravailles. Cotes du rhone les sablieres 2007 - 90 points $14<br /><br />Columbia crest chardonnay columbis valley grand estates 2008 - 89 points - $11<br /><br />Chateau ste. Michelle. Syrah columbia valley 2006 89 points - $13<br /><br />Bodega norton. Malbec mendoza barrel select 2007 - 89 points $14<br /><br />Houge shiraz columbia valley 2007 - 88 points $10<br /><br />St kilda shiraz south eastern australia 2008 - 87 points - $9<br /><br />Montgras. Cabernet sauvignon colchagua valley reserve 2008 - 87 points $12Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-60472541648794093602010-06-03T12:36:00.002-05:002010-06-03T12:43:23.869-05:00Finding your joy<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>Haven't updated the site in a while.<br />
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You HAVE to find joy in your life. It doesn't matter what that is, but you have to be true to yourself. It doesn't have to be one thing, it can be many smaller things, but finding love and joy can't be dependent on some girl or guy. It has to be IN YOU. It has to be PART OF YOU.<br />
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When you have real inner joy, dating takes a back seat. It's merely a fun thing you have going on in addition to everything else.<br />
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We promote kiteboarding because it's so pure. Your joy can be anything. Feel free to email us with what you do and let us know.<br />
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<a href="http://vimeo.com/7550855">Kiteboarding Joy</a>Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-40304655653474543202010-05-07T10:08:00.001-05:002010-05-07T10:08:57.325-05:00Women's MagazinesThis made me laugh. Thought you'd like it too.<br />
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Credit <a href="http://www.cracked.com/">cracked</a><br />
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From Mr. Rogers during his lifetime achievement award acceptance award <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Upm9LnuCBUM&feature=related">speech</a>:<br />
<blockquote><span style="font-size: large;">He made a small bow and said into the microphone, "<b>All of us have special ones who have loved us into being. Would you just take, along with me, ten seconds to think of the people who have helped you become who you are? Ten seconds of silence.</b>" He then lifted his wrist, looked at the audience, looked at his watch, and said, "<i><b>I'll watch the time.</b></i>" There was, at first, a small whoop from the crowd, a giddy, strangled hiccup of laughter, as people realized that he wasn't kidding, that Mister Rogers was not some convenient eunuch, but rather a man, an authority figure who actually expected them to do what he asked. And so they did. Once second, two seconds, seven seconds -- and now the jaws clenched, and the bosoms heaved, and the mascara ran, and the tears fell upon the beglittered gathering like rain leaking down a crystal chandelier. And Mister Rogers finally looked up from his watch and said softly, "<i><b>May God be with you.</b></i>" to all his children.</span></blockquote><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Beautiful women</b></span> come in all shapes and sizes. One of the rarest, and <span style="font-size: large;"><b>most rewarding</b></span>, is a<span style="font-size: large;"><b> tall woman</b></span>.<br />
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Their long, beautiful bodies are the thing of<span style="font-size: large;"><b> mens' dreams and fantasies</b></span>. They <span style="font-size: large;"><b>look good in anything</b></span>, but when they dress to enhance their<span style="font-size: large;"><b> long legs</b></span>, common men literally walk into walls and lose all ability to think or function.<br />
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It takes a lot of <span style="font-size: large;"><b>self confidence</b></span> for a man to date a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>tall woman</b></span>. If you don't have self confidence, you probably won't survive the first few interactions.<br />
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If you have your inner game on lock, you should truly know that most people have the same basic needs and desires. They want to have fun, <span style="font-size: large;"><b>feel good</b></span>, and be with someone attractive that <span style="font-size: large;"><b>brings value</b></span> to their lives.<br />
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This is <span style="font-size: large;"><b>no different</b></span> for stunningly beautiful women.<br />
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Don't change the way you talk to someone based on how they look. Talk to them like a regular person, because that's<span style="font-size: large;"><b> who they are</b></span>. If you are not <span style="font-size: large;"><b>truly self confident</b></span>, then you are in for a short, miserable relationship. Tall women typically have tall friends. This includes guy friends. You are wasting your time if you keep any type of insecurity in yourself. She is with <span style="font-size: large;"><b>YOU</b></span>, not <span style="font-size: large;"><b>THEM</b></span>, because she likes <span style="font-size: large;"><b>WHO</b></span> you are and how you make her <span style="font-size: large;"><b>FEEL</b></span> . Nothing is as big a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>turnoff </b></span>to a girl as having to constantly reassure a weak,<span style="font-size: large;"><b> insecure</b></span> guy.<br />
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Keep this in mind as well. When you show up with that tall, stunningly beautiful woman on your arm, everyone is thinking the same thing: "<i><b>How the hell did he pull THAT?</b></i>" Everyone is going to assume it's money, or power, or whatever they want to make up. The truth is usually simply that they have fun together, and he's a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>confident man</b></span> that understands <span style="font-size: large;"><b>she's a normal person</b></span> who just happens to be tall.<br />
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If you don't<span style="font-size: large;"><b> make it</b></span> a big deal, it's<span style="font-size: large;"><b> not</b></span> a big deal. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Relax!</b></span> If you want to keep around some boots to even you guys out, it should be simply as a courtesy to her to help her not feel awkward in social situations, not to calm your fragile ego. She's<span style="font-size: large;"><b> fine</b></span> with the fact she's tall. Let it be fine for <span style="font-size: large;"><b>you</b></span>.<br />
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As kids, tall girls get teased for their height. Not everyone is 5'10 in the eight grade. If you love her height,<b> <span style="font-size: large;">let her know!</span></b> Don't make a spectacle of it. She'll love you for it.<br />
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">Chances are she's waiting for you -- with her heels on.</span></b>Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-69518250690631806832010-04-29T12:52:00.011-05:002010-04-30T15:57:45.637-05:00Mailbag: I'm a girl, how can I upgrade MY dating life?<div class="usertext-body"><div class="md"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZuuOhVivjaPh-FeSI-o1yD7Qlp8SPTUGX5vCeZ0RfaZCG36hg9DjzAwyMquZcECuUkGQwos4WoOZkOiOoB2dplhX3ZG37UAK0wuW38edcH31i-D2BYLyqDe3FDGV8oIXSeRWMDGuTQhSO/s1600/fun.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZuuOhVivjaPh-FeSI-o1yD7Qlp8SPTUGX5vCeZ0RfaZCG36hg9DjzAwyMquZcECuUkGQwos4WoOZkOiOoB2dplhX3ZG37UAK0wuW38edcH31i-D2BYLyqDe3FDGV8oIXSeRWMDGuTQhSO/s320/fun.jpg" /></a></div>Saw a fantastic post over at <a href="http://reddit.com/">reddit.com</a> about how a woman can upgrade their dating lives. I've tweaked it a bit, but it's gold. Major props to <a href="http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bxca2/what_can_a_girl_do_about_pickup/c0p16pl">intjpua</a>.<br />
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Girls have a lot of options, even if they aren't beautiful.<br />
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Note that a lot of this stuff applies to men, too.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Get fit</b></span>. If you aren't in good shape, start getting there. Eat right, workout (lift weights for 20-30 minutes 3 days a week, do an hour of cardio the other days), and <span style="font-size: large;"><b>stop watching TV</b><b> </b></span>and/or sitting on the computer.<span style="font-size: large;"><b>. Cancel your cable</b></span>. The average person spends hours watching TV every day. That shit is like crack.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Eat Better</b></span>. This is actually very easy and doable. Fast food is no longer a part of your life. Period. At all. Just stop it. You should have to think back to remember the last time you ate out, and WAY back to remember the last fast food you ate. If you keep eating it, you might as well just give up, because are wasting your time. It's shit and you know it.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>This goes for Soda as well</b></span>. It's not a part of your life. At all. Ever. You drink water and sometimes ice tea now. If you get coffee, it's real coffee. Not frapa-mocha-whateverthefuck. Within two to three weeks, your body will flush all the high fructose corn syrup out of your system and that stuff will start to taste like the garbage it is to you. You will drop weight like you've never seen in your life. <br />
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Lunch is now lean cuisine or Healthy choice. They are in the freezer section of the grocery store. You don't go out for lunch at work every day any more. You get your meal out of the freezer in the break room, you heat it, and eat it. You can have some pretzels or wheat thins in the afternoon for a snack. If you are just starving the first week or two, eat one Healthy Choice (the whole meal is only 300calories) about 11am, and another around 2pm. Within two weeks your stomach will have shrunk and one will do you. You will be dropping 10-12 pounds a month if you eat like this and work out.<br />
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Get <span style="font-size: large;"><b>outside</b></span> for fun activities, and you'll dramatically increase your odds of<span style="font-size: large;"><b> meeting someone awesome</b></span>.<br />
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For high quality men, fitness is a primary qualification for girls. They're in pretty good shape, eat healthy, work out, live an active lifestyle, etc. They expect the same from the girls they date. They're just not attracted to big girls, and without physical attraction, there's no chance of an intimate relationship.<br />
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If you want a quick jump start on fitness, get the P90x or Insanity cardio program DVD's. They really, really, for real <span style="font-size: large;"><b>work</b></span>. In two months your will<span style="font-size: large;"><b> transform</b></span> your body. And they are fun. There is zero reason to be in an expensive gym and waste time driving there, and other bullshit. Get your company computer nerd to burn some copies of it if your poor, or spend the lousy $99 and get the real deal. This will get you the body you want faster and cheaper than a personal trainer.<br />
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Get clean and neat. Whiten your teeth, get braces if you need them (Invisalign are pricey, but aren't extremely visible while you have them). Nothing messes up a cute girl like a missing tooth or jacked up grill. It doesn't have to be perfect, just normal. <br />
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Make sure you clean up before going out, even if it's just for the grocery or drug store. There may be men there.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Dress nicely</b></span>. Honestly assess the state of your clothes (check with a friend who seems to have an abundance of great men in her life, if you aren't sure what you're doing wrong or what you should do differently).<br />
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Be well-groomed. Have a nice, current, hairstyle? Many men say they prefer long hair, however a good flattering haircut is better than long hair that doesn't suit your face and body. Check with that friend again on your hair. Go to a good stylist (find one on <a href="http://www.yelp.com/">Yelp</a>) and pay the $75-$150 it takes to get a really good haircut (cheaper places can probably keep that haircut in shape for the following few months).<br />
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Keep your legs shaved and your lady parts<span style="font-size: large;"><b> ready for action</b></span>; your mental state is affected by lots of little details, and if you feel "unavailable" because of hair in places you don't want hair, you'll <span style="font-size: large;"><b>give off that vibe</b></span> in subtle ways. It will hurt your chances.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Makeup</b></span>. Guys vary wildly in what kind of makeup they like on a girl. If you don't like wearing makeup, shoot for one of the guys that doesn't like a lot of makeup (we're out here; I hate big waxy looking red lips, heavy blush and eyeliner, etc.). But, even natural beauty is improved with a little makeup. If you don't know makeup, go get some lessons from the girls at the department store counter.<br />
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So, those are the "get hot" aspects of attracting men...but you can <i>also</i> be more assertive without being weird.<br />
I went on a social bike ride a recently, and one girl there was absolutely awesome in her assertiveness. She'd pull up beside someone she hadn't talked to, and say, "<i><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Hey, shy guy. What's your name?</b></span></i>" It's no coincidence that she's happily married, and the center of a huge social circle. She was a total alpha chick, and men totally dug her for it. If you see a guy you like the looks of, and he's not being very talkative, this is an <span style="font-size: large;"><b>awesome way to talk to him</b></span>.<br />
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Hang around fun girls that <span style="font-size: large;"><b>aren't bitches or depressing</b></span>. You are a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>composite of your friends.</b></span> If you surround yourself with high quality, fun, active, supportive, <span style="font-size: large;"><b>positive energy friends</b></span>, you are jumped way ahead in your quest. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>These are the people you want to be around</b></span>. They attractive positive energy,and active, <span style="font-size: large;"><b>high quality men</b></span>.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Be fun </b></span>when you're out with your friends. Sit in your friends' laps, make racy jokes, smack each other on the ass, etc. There are tons of reasons for this...it's an opening for guys to start joking and talking to you, it's sexy, and<span style="font-size: large;"><b> turns guys on.</b></span> It also keeps you in the right frame of mind for playing with guys when they come along. You want to be playfully teasing guys from the moment you start feeling some attraction. This doesn't mean the drunk party girl. You can be <span style="font-size: large;"><b>classy AND fun</b></span>.<br />
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As a greyhound to a rabbit, guys love the chase...but you need to shake your little bunny tail now and then to keep them chasing.<br />
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You should not be looking backwards. You should be looking <b>AROUND</b>.<br />
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You want happiness? <b>GO GET IT</b>. Can't find a girl that makes you happy? Can't find one that's cute/smart/classy/intelligent enough? <b>OPEN YOUR EYES</b>. You are literally swimming in them.<br />
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<a href="http://roissy.wordpress.com/">Roissy </a>recently wrote an outstanding piece on opportunity. Read it. This is how it really works.<br />
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<a href="http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/04/14/opportunity-is-everywhere/">Opportunity article</a><br />
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<div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">Today we’ll accompany an average American, SWPL Six-pack, on his daily routine as he makes an effort to meet a number of attractive women that he sees.</span></div></div></blockquote><br />
<blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">It’s a Saturday. He gets up in the morning, showers, dresses and walks to the Starbucks down the block. While waiting at an intersection for the light to change, he notices an attractive girl standing next to him. He pivots to say something to her.</span></div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>I’ve got thirty seconds before the light changes to flirt with you. Ready?</b></i>”</span></div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">On the sidewalk in front of the Starbucks, he passes another attractive girl.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>Excuse me. Could you tell me where the nearest Starbucks is?</b></i>”</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">In Starbucks, waiting in line, he speaks to the attractive girl standing ahead of him.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>Ever notice how fast the Starbucks barristas work in the morning? They must take a triple shot before their shift.</b></i>”</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">Outside, holding his drink, he walks to the post office to drop off a letter. On the sidewalk an attractive girl walks toward him.</span></div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">"<i><b>Hi!</b></i>”</span></div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">At the post office, an attractive girl puts a letter in the mailbox.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>Be careful, that box sends all love letters to my address.</b></i>”</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">Leaving the post office, he walks to a clothing store to make some purchases. On the walk over, nine attractive girls pass by him.</span><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi.”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi!”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi there.”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hey.”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Good morning!”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Excuse me. Where is the nearest dog grooming shop?”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi.”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi.”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hello!”</span></b></i> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">At the store, a girl hovers around the sunglass display.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>You’ll want sunglasses that hide which guys you’re checking out. Don’t worry, you don’t make me self-conscious.</b></i>”</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">In the lingerie section, an attractive girl rifles through bras.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>I need to buy something for Mother’s Day. Too frilly?</b></i>”</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">Back on the sidewalk, he stops at a street vendor to buy a warm pretzel. An attractive girl is there as well.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i>I know this pretzel. I think this guy shops at Costco and marks up 1,000 percent.</i>”</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">He goes home to get his frisbee. He plans to meet a friend at the local park. On the way home, five more attractive girls ping his visual field.</span><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi.”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi.”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi!”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi.”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Happy Saturday!”</span></b></i> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">On the walk to the park, two more attractive girls. He pretends to throw the frisbee to them.</span><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Catch!”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Catch! Ohh, too slow.”</span></b></i></div></div></blockquote><br />
<blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">At the park, he and his friend spend more time ogling the girls than tossing the frisbee. A throw goes astray and lands near the feet of an attractive girl.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>I had my buddy throw it near you on purpose. I’m smooooooth.”</b></i></span></div></div></blockquote><br />
<blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">After playing frisbee, he goes to dinner at a local cafe with his friend. An attractive girl serves them.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>I heard the waitresses here are good flirters. Ok, let’s see what you’ve got.</b></i>”</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">Dinner ends, and his friend leaves. He goes to Whole Foods to pick up some smelly cheese and grass-fed beef for the week. On the walk to Whole Foods, three attractive girls and one incredibly ugly girl pass him.</span><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi.”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi!”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">“Hi.”</span></b></i><br />
<i><b><span style="font-size: small;">*silence*</span></b></i> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">Loitering in the cheese section, he notices one of his exes is there. He sidles up to an attractive girl rummaging through the assortment of goat cheeses.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>Hey, I just noticed my ex is here. Right over there. I’m going to ask you a favor. Pretend you’re flirting with me so I can make her jealous. I’ll return the favor by flirting back. Trust me, you’ll thank me.”</b></i></span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">Back at home, cutting off a hunk of cheese and downloading new Yeah Yeah Yeahs music, he makes plans to hit the local social venue with his buddies. Once arrived, he orders drinks from the attractive girl bartender.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>Don’t think this means we have something going on.</b></i>”</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">A few hours socializing and drinking, he has met and spoken with six attractive girls. Walking home later that night, he steps next to an attractive girl at an intersection.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">“<i><b>I like your hat. Very trendy right now.</b></i>”</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">He goes home to sleep, a full day behind him.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">***</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">The above did not actually happen. Or, more to the point, it is not an accurate depiction of a day in the life of the typical, average American man who wishes he could meet more women. The number of attractive girls he saw on that Saturday is realistic, but the number of those girls he spoke to is, woefully, not.</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">It doesn’t matter if you don’t have the wittiest opener, or the smoothest delivery. If you open your mouth and say something as benign as “<i><b>Hi</b></i>” to thirty-eight attractive girls on a single Saturday, you will have rocketed yourself ahead of 99% of men who passed by those same girls and said nothing. You would have brought yourself closer to sex with at least one of those girls that wouldn’t have been the case had you walked by them silently, cursing your inaction once the moment evaporated.</span> </div></div></blockquote><blockquote><div class="entry"><div class="snap_preview"><span style="font-size: small;">Now add in a little game. You’ve just hurdled 99.9% of men who pass by those girls without muttering a word on that typical, “boring” Saturday. </span><br />
<blockquote><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Opportunity is everywhere for those with the eyes to see.</b></span></blockquote></div></div></blockquote>Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-42743301026616656252010-04-29T10:35:00.003-05:002010-04-29T12:40:22.650-05:00Mailbag: Winning back an Ex<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdadM_QB9w-6V40zyCJ1Wn1lMkG54Cb8FJ_-cIBOiHiSBFPTcDsI0OTPqpOuDVGz2KgUBFNGWjwiIJubgRE1nm7jJWsv6BL5u6CNV7EfydW9HkKN2A2CK_JEZlxiSkk3srTVCj8vCNRw_3/s1600/exes.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="303" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdadM_QB9w-6V40zyCJ1Wn1lMkG54Cb8FJ_-cIBOiHiSBFPTcDsI0OTPqpOuDVGz2KgUBFNGWjwiIJubgRE1nm7jJWsv6BL5u6CNV7EfydW9HkKN2A2CK_JEZlxiSkk3srTVCj8vCNRw_3/s400/exes.png" width="400" /></a></div>We get a lot of mail here at TBL.<br />
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Some of the most common are from men looking to get back an ex. Can it be done? Usually. Should it be done? No.<br />
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I know you're special, and she's special, and you guys had something more amazing than anyone else ever has or will.<br />
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After you've broken up, you are <span style="font-size: large;"><b>both different people</b></span>. You may not be able to tell, but you are.<br />
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You are still in love with the person you fell in love with. She's<span style="font-size: large;"><b> not that person</b></span> anymore. Neither are <span style="font-size: large;"><b>you</b></span>.<br />
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If you haven't gone through this process enough to understand the above as truth, then you'll unfortunately have to so that you can mature emotionally as a man.<br />
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So, here's the process that <span style="font-size: large;"><b>actually works</b></span>. It will <span style="font-size: large;"><b>hurt</b></span>. You will grow. Be careful what you wish for.<br />
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1) Let them go<br />
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2) Start going out and making new friends<br />
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3) Completely cut contact. No helping, or checking on them, or anything. Cold complete turkey<br />
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4) Improve yourself.<br />
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A) Start hitting the gym. When you start getting in shape, it pumps endorphins into your body, making you happier and a cooler person to be around<br />
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B) Get outside. Force yourself to go out at LEAST three times a week. Go get a beer. Go dancing. Go to the lake. Walk your dog at the dog park.<br />
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C) CALL (don't text) every friend you have and invite them out to do something. See what they are up to. Help them out with something. Go over their house. DON'T piss and moan and talk about your ex. Talk about anything else.<br />
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D) Go buy some new clothes. If you've been in a relationship for a long time, you are out of style. Yes, you.<br />
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E) If you're a guy, check out some dating websites to get your game back in tune.<br />
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F) When you haven't talked to your ex in a couple months, they WILL text you and wonder why you haven't called them. This is what you want. Just play it cool and have a lot going on. Don't PRETEND and bullshit having a lot going on, <b>ACTUALLY</b> for real have a lot going on. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>This is the most attractive possible thing you can do.</b></span><br />
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G) Be careful what you wish for. The first day or two of your ex wanting you back will make you feel good and like an answer to a prayer. Day three will remind you why you broke up. By the end of week one with them back you'll remember<span style="font-size: large;"><b> allllll</b></span> their old bullshit that drove you nuts. If you have sex, it'll be great, but not as great because you'll be thinking about what everything means. Is this gonna work? What did they say to wreck you to their fam/friends/social circle? You'll more than likely wonder what the hell you are thinking.<br />
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You will probably dump them.<br />
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Good luck. :)Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-41731404390165126062010-04-19T16:54:00.004-05:002010-04-19T17:17:36.942-05:00Men's Suits for Under a Thousand<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgScJUxLftSL4bsr4wsyJwxp49802aTdo5fxFM_XozCnx51s9fzPsQz3arHWEgPCVF3YiVDck91YTfyOJer2A-KuOj7AIjXhNYcLMMDefseLJvN6nGLTh0kp_CJ_HxhOhquH6x7ES3LMbAl/s1600/mens_suits.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgScJUxLftSL4bsr4wsyJwxp49802aTdo5fxFM_XozCnx51s9fzPsQz3arHWEgPCVF3YiVDck91YTfyOJer2A-KuOj7AIjXhNYcLMMDefseLJvN6nGLTh0kp_CJ_HxhOhquH6x7ES3LMbAl/s320/mens_suits.JPG" /></a></div>Every man over the age of twenty-one should own a suit. A good one.<br />
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We all have the ill fitting horror that your mom took you shopping for so you could go to that one thing. Burn it. Or better yet, donate it.<br />
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You don't have to be a millionaire to look like one.<br />
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Here are some looks you can build that won't break the bank, but will catapult you forward in your career and self confidence. A suit is something you have to invest in.<br />
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<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/slideshow/2010/04/07/style/04082010DRESSCODES_index.html"><i><b><span style="font-size: large;">New York Times Article on Stylish, Inexpensive Suits</span></b></i></a><br />
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Remember, when in doubt when comes to men's fashion, go with classic over trendy.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">And don't forget the <a href="http://www.kinowear.com/blog/a-simple-guide-on-dress-shoes/#more-136"><i><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Shoes</b></span></i></a></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;">There's a reason Frank still looks good.</span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></span><i><span style="font-size: large;"><b> </b></span></i></span></span>Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-60214732582109042092010-04-16T12:55:00.006-05:002010-04-19T17:01:01.894-05:00Improving your lifeImproving your life has to be a total effort.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwD3KJB1jXhBwO1h0uqqbVFRIU3kpLJuCA0neyfM7aAGctIdD0esjDcVqoUJZyvBEJ6Hs3sD7sSPHfhj6AlUZ4V8FO1Lah5K85IvFRZ3Ch2xNBWBnz_qo7Aqq_L70Az1_prrNdR-8kfLcC/s1600/kite_surf.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="266" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwD3KJB1jXhBwO1h0uqqbVFRIU3kpLJuCA0neyfM7aAGctIdD0esjDcVqoUJZyvBEJ6Hs3sD7sSPHfhj6AlUZ4V8FO1Lah5K85IvFRZ3Ch2xNBWBnz_qo7Aqq_L70Az1_prrNdR-8kfLcC/s400/kite_surf.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>Learning to meet people isn't enough. You have to improve who you are. This includes changing what you do.<br />
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Women CRAVE a man that is active and outdoors. They want to be that themselves, so they are looking for a man who lives that lifestyle and will bring them into that world.<br />
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You want to be doing things that are fresh and exciting and will make that girl "God, I can't WAIT to tell my girlfriends I met this cool guy that's into "insert active lifestyle activities here".<br />
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One of the most fun, exhilarating things you can get into is the new sport of kitesurfing. Not only is it reasonably priced to get into ($1200-1500ish for full size kitesurfing. $150ish for trainer kites, learning), it's also something you'll truly love and have a passion for.<br />
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It's win/win on a number of levels.<br />
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A) You are out in the sun getting a tan<br />
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B) You are outside<br />
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C) You are surrounded by other healthy, active guys. This means instant social circle.<br />
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D) You aren't sitting around shitty gas stations with the bike or car club.<br />
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E) You are teaching her something, and bringing her into a world she's never experienced.<br />
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F) It's hardcore cardio, which means you're getting into and maintaing great shape.<br />
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G) You get in touch with nature and yourself. It's all on you. Succeed or fail, crash hard, or touch the face of God.<br />
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H) Make this your world. <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2zDEFSy8D4Y">Kitesurfing</a><br />
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You don't have to live somewhere tropical. We live in the middle of Oklahoma City, and kite surf at the city lake. It's AMAZING and there are thousands of people there every nice day watching and wishing they were flying with us.<br />
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It's up to YOU to decide who to have friendly conversations with, and who to spend the afternoon teaching.Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-11055540610224496922010-04-14T13:18:00.007-05:002010-04-19T17:01:37.487-05:00AMOG basics<div class="usertext-body"><div class="md"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmpaLB7IOlh8MakYBQHPClFQNGlgj2bMuzUr3wVVS12n774GDW6lNHvMuKdttJxos8oVKQdoofAcv1xoG9K8t-aqY0jZqQpbuDXCH5ZoH_IMHfBd9El1LLbe_yKRA68JI3SvJY1Y07hujL/s1600/amogd.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="236" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmpaLB7IOlh8MakYBQHPClFQNGlgj2bMuzUr3wVVS12n774GDW6lNHvMuKdttJxos8oVKQdoofAcv1xoG9K8t-aqY0jZqQpbuDXCH5ZoH_IMHfBd9El1LLbe_yKRA68JI3SvJY1Y07hujL/s400/amogd.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>If you are <span style="font-size: large;"><b>going out a lot</b></span>, you'll sooner or later have to deal with <a href="http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/alpha-male-of-group-amog/">AMOGs</a> . It stands for "Alpha Male Other Guy". These guys attempt to<span style="font-size: large;"><b> bully or out Alpha</b></span> you in an attempt to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>show dominance</b></span>, and therefore <span style="font-size: large;"><b>social value</b></span>.<br />
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This is actually a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>GOOD</b></span> thing because it means you are <span style="font-size: large;"><b>projecting high enough value to be a threat</b></span> to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>other Alphas</b></span> for <span style="font-size: large;"><b>competition for the highest value women</b></span>. They are testing you to see if you really <span style="font-size: large;"><b>ARE</b></span> an alpha, or a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>faker</b></span>. Women will watch these interactions with <span style="font-size: large;"><b>GREAT</b></span> interest. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Not just your girl</b></span>, but <span style="font-size: large;"><b>every girl</b></span> in the room. Your girl <span style="font-size: large;"><b>will</b></span> tell her girlfriends the next day about the interaction, <span style="font-size: large;"><b>win or lose</b></span>. <br />
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You should <span style="font-size: large;"><b>already be an Alpha yourself</b></span> (or working on it in the form of inner game, body language, confidence, and lifestyle), so most of the time they will<span style="font-size: large;"><b> recognize that value</b></span> and either partner up with you, or even qualify themselves <span style="font-size: large;"><b>TO</b></span> you. This is a<span style="font-size: large;"><b> GREAT</b></span> gauge of how good your <span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">body language</span></span> is. If they are trying to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>punk you</b></span>, you're body language conveys that you are of <span style="font-size: large;"><b>lower value</b></span>. If they try to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>qualify to you</b></span>, they believe you to be of <span style="font-size: large;"><b>equal or higher value</b></span>. You're body language is <span style="font-size: large;"><b>on lock</b></span>.<br />
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If you catch them qualifying to you, simply<span style="font-size: large;"><b> friend them and ignore</b></span>. If they are lame, ignore them so you don't lower your own value. <br />
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Many articles have been written on <span style="font-size: large;"><b>anti-AMOG</b></span> tactics. I won't cover all of them,<a href="http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=amog&aq=f"> look them up</a>. Here are some basics though that will cover 95% of what you'll see in real life.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>When in doubt</b></span>, ignore if possible, then <span style="font-size: large;"><b>move away</b></span>.<br />
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If they are up in your shit,<span style="font-size: large;"><b> friend them</b></span>, then<span style="font-size: large;"><b> ignore</b></span>.<br />
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If you <span style="font-size: large;"><b>can't ignore them</b></span>, keep <span style="font-size: large;"><b>excluding them from the conversation</b></span>. Act like they <span style="font-size: large;"><b>didn't even say anything</b></span>, start <span style="font-size: large;"><b>talking about other stuff while they are still talking</b></span>, etc. Try to not acknowledge <span style="font-size: large;"><b>anything</b></span>. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Never laugh</b></span> at anything they say. The second you <span style="font-size: large;"><b>acknowledge them, you are bringing their value up</b></span> to the same level as yours.<br />
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If at all possible, <span style="font-size: large;"><b>be having more fun</b></span> than them.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Confronting is almost always lose lose</b></span>. (The exception is to out AMOG the AMOG before he gets very far by <span style="font-size: large;"><b>bringing 10x the energy level</b></span> to the interaction.) Here's an exchange that happened at a surf spot where a guy was standing a little too close to TN's girl this weekend.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>RandomDood</b></span>: "Hey girl, chatty chat lame chat."<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>TN</b></span>: (Catches Dood about to run game because TN's game is <span style="font-size: large;"><b>airtight</b></span>. Walks up to RD fast. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>REAL</b></span> fast. Big smile. Laser beam eye contact on Dood.) "I fucking <span style="font-size: large;"><b>LOVE</b></span> your bike. That is a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>SICK</b></span> fucking bike. God <span style="font-size: large;"><b>DAMN</b></span> you are a cool motherfucker."<span style="font-size: large;"><b> (BIG</b></span> friendly slap on back. Standing <span style="font-size: large;"><b>CLOSE</b></span>. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>REAL CLOSE</b></span>.)<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Randomdood</b></span>: (shocked, not prepared for the energy difference TN just brought.) "Um, oh, yeah. It's coo.."<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>TN</b></span>: (Cutting him off) "No, <span style="font-size: large;"><b>YOU'RE</b></span> fucking cool. Come hang out with us any time." (Still big smile)<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Randomdood</b></span>: (Backs <span style="font-size: large;"><b>WAY</b></span> up off TN's girl. Catches the implied drift. Realizes he's just been handed his hat.)<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>TN's Girl:</b></span> :) (Realizes what just happened, and the fact that she's dating the<span style="font-size: large;"><b> REAL</b></span> alpha.)<br />
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Outsmarting them verbally to their face to "win" <span style="font-size: large;"><b>only happens in movies and in nerds' minds</b></span>. Remember, movies are <span style="font-size: large;"><b>written by nerdy screenwriters</b></span>. Notice TN handled everything with <span style="font-size: large;"><b>energy and body language</b></span>.<br />
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Roosh over at<a href="http://www.rooshv.com/"> Rooshv.com</a> wrote the quickest, cleanest tactic I've ever seen if you get caught already in a verbal joust and need a quick out. Here it is, paraphrased from memory out of his outstanding book "<a href="http://www.bangpickupguide.com/">Bang</a>".<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Randomdood</b></span>: (Walks up into Roosh's set and starts gaming the girl Roosh has already been gaming for twenty minutes.) "Hey!! What's going on over here? Damn, you're cute."<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Roosh:</b></span> "Wait. (Points at girl) Do you like her?"<br />
*Note: The guy has just<span style="font-size: large;"><b> been called out</b></span>. He really only has<span style="font-size: large;"><b> two choices</b></span>.<br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><b>A)</b></span> He says "Um Yeah." This automatically throws up her creeper screen and disqualifies him because remember that <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Attraction = Not conveying interest</b></span>. Also, he's still just a<span style="font-size: large;"><b> random dood</b></span>. Why would he like her other than looks?<br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><b>B)</b></span> He says "No, I'm just out having fun, etc, etc, blah blah". At this point he's already<span style="font-size: large;"><b> put his dick in a box</b></span> and he's <span style="font-size: large;"><b>D-O-N-E</b></span>.<br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Regardless of what he says</b></span> you already<span style="font-size: large;"><b> have hand</b></span>, so you simply have to<span style="font-size: large;"><b> hand him his hat</b></span>.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Roosh:</b></span> "That's cool. Well, there are plenty of cute girls here. Good luck brother, Don't give up!!"<br />
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If you find yourself getting AMOG'd a lot, then <span style="font-size: large;"><b>you are drawing it to yourself</b></span>. I can count on one hand the number of AMOG situations I've dealt with in ten years of going out.<br />
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If a guy is trying to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>AMOG you</b></span>, out to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>steal your girl</b></span>, then some <span style="font-size: large;"><b> basics will help</b></span>. The easiest way is to look up AMOG on<a href="http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=amog&aq=f"> Youtube</a>. There are some great tutorials on body language to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>cut them out</b></span> in a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>social setting</b></span>.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Most of the time</b></span> all you have to do is<span style="font-size: large;"><b> turn your girl</b></span> a bit or<span style="font-size: large;"><b> pull her to the side</b></span> and <span style="font-size: large;"><b>face both of your backs to them</b></span>.<br />
If they are <span style="font-size: large;"><b>still trying</b></span> to work in or buy her drinks, then simply <span style="font-size: large;"><b>grab your girl </b></span>by <span style="font-size: large;"><b>BOTH</b></span> hands and <span style="font-size: large;"><b>pull her away physically</b></span> to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>another location</b></span> "Hey, I want to show you something cool." When you get her away, say "Here's the something cool, me." Then tickle her and continue gaming.<br />
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If you are dealing with a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>drunk asshole</b></span>, it's always <span style="font-size: large;"><b>lose lose</b></span>. If you<span style="font-size: large;"><b> confront them</b></span>, <span style="font-size: large;"><b>you lose</b></span> because you're in a<b> <span style="font-size: large;">fight</span></b>. If you try a <span style="font-size: large;"><b> battle of wits</b></span>, etc, <span style="font-size: large;"><b>you lose</b></span> before you've <span style="font-size: large;"><b>even opened your mouth</b></span> because you're <span style="font-size: large;"><b>acknowledging them as an equal</b></span>. The best course of action is to "<span style="font-size: large;"><b>girl code</b></span>" your girl by <span style="font-size: large;"><b>rolling your eyes</b></span> and smiling a bit in a "wow, what a drunk idiot" way and/or mouthing the word "<span style="font-size: large;"><b>creepy</b></span>" or "<span style="font-size: large;"><b>creeper</b></span>" if you can get away with it.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Always be moving her away</b></span> from the <span style="font-size: large;"><b>negative vibes</b></span> of an AMOG.<br />
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Remember, Pickup, at it's core, boils down to this:<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-large;"><b>Become an expert in how to feel good</b></span>.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiprrW00oTm8QS7AtNWCeG1iEu44zPIBQoV1ktAC03vZ9CjqnIItZjkb6UMVd32oVbsYkWUhI2uBGLCa9rtxNBmjulxmO-33wuZt_B-9lCBCQAPlaX9pfem6ZuzMZ3BOSWKaFyqq-G_o1V5/s1600/7_steve_mcqueen.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiprrW00oTm8QS7AtNWCeG1iEu44zPIBQoV1ktAC03vZ9CjqnIItZjkb6UMVd32oVbsYkWUhI2uBGLCa9rtxNBmjulxmO-33wuZt_B-9lCBCQAPlaX9pfem6ZuzMZ3BOSWKaFyqq-G_o1V5/s320/7_steve_mcqueen.jpg" /></a></div>Anything that isn't <span style="font-size: large;"><b>good feelings</b></span>, is not moving you in a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>positive direction</b></span> with the girl.</div></div>Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-12277268864223615032010-04-09T12:47:00.003-05:002010-04-19T17:08:56.257-05:00How to knock a shit test out of the park<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwoFF0RlLZozI172HNlpibb7uW7wkbbP6smrA3M7R_6i-nl6O4MFkF72MlRxsgWa_2-OSA2Fcbil5JXJQZojpEJVUFz9veNGQNwF1x2tMz2dGHuqvEy3TXg_ps550wKRl-e1jCkklZoBnt/s1600/smart.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="341" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwoFF0RlLZozI172HNlpibb7uW7wkbbP6smrA3M7R_6i-nl6O4MFkF72MlRxsgWa_2-OSA2Fcbil5JXJQZojpEJVUFz9veNGQNwF1x2tMz2dGHuqvEy3TXg_ps550wKRl-e1jCkklZoBnt/s400/smart.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><a href="http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/shit-test/">Shit Test</a>: <br />
<i>A shit test is when a woman gives a guy a hard time, usually for the purpose of seeing how he will react. Because women (especially attractive women) are hit on all the time, they have developed behaviors that quickly <a href="http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/disqualification-dq/" title="disqualify">disqualify</a> potential suitors that are not of a high enough <a href="http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/value/" title="value">value</a> for her. The shit test is one way to do this. Shit tests can be challenges, <a href="http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/indicator-of-disinterest-iod/" title="IODs">IODs</a> or <a href="http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/reframe/" title="reframes">reframes</a>.</i><br />
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Saw this exchange between one of our students and a girl recently. He was playing cheesy pickup line anti-game game. The way it was handled was not only excellent, but spiked her attraction enough for them to be making out an hour later.<br />
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Him: "If I told you you had a nice body, would you hold it against me?"<br />
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Her: "I have a Taser in my purse. I can hold that against you."<br />
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Him: (bare ghost of a smirk. Laserbeam eye contact) "I sensing some electricity between us."<br />
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Her: "Really? I'm sensing resistance."<br />
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Him: "We're past that. Now there's definately a spark."<br />
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You'll notice that she was shit testing him for intelligence. Most of the time shit tests fall in the realm of social intuition and self confidence. When you are picking up top tier girls, remember that a good number of them are not only beautiful, but extremely intelligent and educated. Bring your "A" game.<br />
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</i>Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-66799833557668109032010-04-01T12:52:00.005-05:002010-04-19T17:08:56.257-05:00Lazy man's guide to bagging tensSo you just <span style="font-size: large;"><b>found out about game</b></span>.<br />
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You <span style="font-size: large;"><b>don't have time</b></span> to actually<span style="font-size: large;"><b> read</b></span> anything or <span style="font-size: large;"><b>study pickup</b></span> at all like the <span style="font-size: large;"><b>successful</b></span> guys. You're going out<span style="font-size: large;"><b> TONIGHT</b></span> and want to<span style="font-size: large;"><b> bag some TENS</b></span> baby.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Luckily</b></span>, we have <span style="font-size: large;"><b>just the solution</b></span>.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Step One: Visualize the quality of girls you want</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Note</b></span>: This can also be used to upgrade existing wives/girlfriends.Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-45778526834315851542010-03-31T10:35:00.004-05:002010-04-19T17:01:37.489-05:00How to pick up asian girls, by an asian girl<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Every guy</b></span> has a wish list<span style="font-size: large;"><b> type</b></span> of girl. Some have a soft spot for redheads. Some guys like blondes.<br />
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A whole <span style="font-size: large;"><b>lot of guys</b></span> like <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Asian girls</b></span>. A whole lot of guys have <span style="font-size: large;"><b>no idea how to attract them</b></span>.<br />
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Here's a brief <span style="font-size: large;"><b>how-to</b></span> written by a cute North American one: <br />
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Seeing as how I'm an <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Asian girl</b></span>, I can think of a few things compiled from my own and friends' preferences.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Standoffish</b></span> might mean <span style="font-size: large;"><b>shy</b></span>, which <span style="font-size: large;"><b>virtually every</b></span> Asian girl I've met<span style="font-size: large;"><b> is</b></span>. You<span style="font-size: large;"><b> must persist</b></span>, but <span style="font-size: large;"><b>NEVER appear desperate</b></span>.<br />
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This is the <span style="font-size: large;"><b>first rule of approaching Asian women</b></span>. Hear me out. It may seem racist, but what I am about to tell you is<span style="font-size: large;"><b> true</b></span>. Most Asian women expect the man to do <span style="font-size: large;"><b>EVERYTHING</b></span>. They may want equal rights blah blah... but they <span style="font-size: large;"><b>expect the man</b></span> to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>do all the approaching</b></span>, all the<span style="font-size: large;"><b> prompting</b></span>, and<span style="font-size: large;"><b> pay for the dates</b></span> unless otherwise specified. If the girl is <span style="font-size: large;"><b>standoffish, she may simply have nothing to say to you</b></span> because she is<span style="font-size: large;"><b> conditioned to be shy and demure</b></span>. You <span style="font-size: large;"><b>must become smooth.</b></span><br />
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Second, there are<span style="font-size: large;"><b> two types</b></span> of Asian girls:<br />
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They either like <span style="font-size: large;"><b>girly men, or manly men</b></span>. This is pretty much hit or miss... though the <span style="font-size: large;"><b>majority go for the girly men</b></span>, therefore you will make a better first impression if you:<br />
<ol><li><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Dress well</b></span></li>
<li>Are<span style="font-size: large;"><b> well groomed</b></span></li>
</ol><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Emphasize eyebrows</b></span>. You may have to<span style="font-size: large;"><b> pluck</b></span>.<br />
If you have acne, get something to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>clear it up</b></span>.<br />
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Dressing well is a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>sign of wealth</b></span>. This is <span style="font-size: large;"><b>extremely important to Asians</b></span>. You may sometimes see <span style="font-size: large;"><b>retarded</b></span> Asian males wearing <span style="font-size: large;"><b>gangsta clothing</b></span>. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>This is fail</b></span>. You should wear something that a woman would pick out for you. Something a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>bit dressy</b></span>, something that screams straight A student.<br />
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Third, realize that <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Asian girls generally love tall white guys</b></span>. If you look good, and are <span style="font-size: large;"><b>hitting on them</b></span> they will probably <span style="font-size: large;"><b>be flattered</b></span>. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Be confident</b></span>. Don't be cocky unless you can <span style="font-size: large;"><b>still be charming</b></span>.<br />
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Fourth, avoid the "can you translate this for me" approach. If you guess the wrong language, it is an automatic turn off. If you are obviously<span style="font-size: large;"><b> lying</b></span>, you will <span style="font-size: large;"><b>just look dumb</b></span>.<br />
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Don't approach them using some kind of<span style="font-size: large;"><b> Asian pretense</b></span>. Pretend you <span style="font-size: large;"><b>don't notice</b></span> they are Asian.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>BE POLITE</b></span>. Politeness is a<span style="font-size: large;"><b> huge +</b></span> (for the majority of Asian girls). Regardless of what they say, courtesy is ingrained in the North American Asians just as much as Asians straight from Asia. They will see <span style="font-size: large;"><b>politeness as a sign of respect</b></span>... unless they have completely rebelled against their culture. This will manifest in heavy makeup and slutty clothing. Even then, <span style="font-size: large;"><b>politeness is still a good bet</b></span>, as their subconscious desire may conflict with the conscious claim of the Asian woman.<br />
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Fifth: There is a 99.9% chance that the Asian girl you are looking at has been exposed to some type of Asian romance drama. This is probably the most irritating thing about Asian girls. In these dramas, people do weird things for no reason and the relationships rarely make sense. However, there is <span style="font-size: large;"><b>emphasis on 'significant acts' and "everlasting love"</b></span>.<br />
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This means that if you <span style="font-size: large;"><b>give a girl a token of your affection</b></span> such as a ring, a small drawing you made, or a hair clip you think she'd like...even if she doesn't like it, it's going to be a plus one. If you give her something on your first meeting, its a WTF+1. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Give her a flower and ask her to dance.</b></span> Suddenly she has stepped into a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Korean drama dream world</b></span> which is equivalent to a Disney tale.Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com23tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-67822262400046873272010-03-30T16:56:00.003-05:002010-04-19T17:01:37.489-05:00Gender EnglishWhat you say vs. what you mean.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGT6ZjXcF5M-AoGlPATGHpJsMSR20xoetX7V-feIIUvATQQ65lwfyLM4aWGotfpLYC5cx8APnT00JitdDk56bbzU0J86R51FhyphenhyphenPCCcZDa9dhIwCc3u9Z2k3G8ZIqpZmPG0qbirZ6n6BVXT/s1600/tumblr_l007nmRcjJ1qb13xjo1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="258" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGT6ZjXcF5M-AoGlPATGHpJsMSR20xoetX7V-feIIUvATQQ65lwfyLM4aWGotfpLYC5cx8APnT00JitdDk56bbzU0J86R51FhyphenhyphenPCCcZDa9dhIwCc3u9Z2k3G8ZIqpZmPG0qbirZ6n6BVXT/s320/tumblr_l007nmRcjJ1qb13xjo1_500.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-83241811730331291292010-03-30T10:21:00.008-05:002010-04-19T17:01:01.895-05:00The Natural<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2Ql_-x5yhyGd-vE65pEXKRet8F_51vkJeD-3uuxlAPgOh5QTsg1sRkkLqKvof_NSlUS8AF25JbxJDBBh7XMgAkrQ-ydclL6FZola5E94-XPCkTKk0UqnGoBWYIMx4jY30ZPh4gWMsBfhb/s1600/IMG00447.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi2Ql_-x5yhyGd-vE65pEXKRet8F_51vkJeD-3uuxlAPgOh5QTsg1sRkkLqKvof_NSlUS8AF25JbxJDBBh7XMgAkrQ-ydclL6FZola5E94-XPCkTKk0UqnGoBWYIMx4jY30ZPh4gWMsBfhb/s320/IMG00447.jpg" /></a></div>The Natural wrote down a few thoughts that bear posting.<br />
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You <span style="font-size: large;"><b>hear about true naturals</b></span> a lot in pickup. You wonder what makes them a "natural" when <span style="font-size: large;"><b>social vibing</b></span> and instinct is so tough<b> <span style="font-size: large;">for you</span></b>. Naturals understand<span style="font-size: large;"><b> basic things</b></span> about interacting with people and have <span style="font-size: large;"><b>completely internalized</b></span> them. You can see that they are<span style="font-size: large;"><b> basic but true</b></span>. Most <span style="font-size: large;"><b>core truths</b></span> are.<br />
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Sometimes it's the basics that you have to remind yourself of:<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Give examples</b></span> of how<span style="font-size: large;"><b> you</b></span> want to be treated. How can someone know if <span style="font-size: large;"><b>you're even capable</b></span> of showing compassion if you, yourself, don't <span style="font-size: large;"><b>show compassion to others</b></span>?<br />
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To<span style="font-size: large;"><b> make friends</b></span> all one has to do is <span style="font-size: large;"><b>show an example</b></span> of how <span style="font-size: large;"><b>you</b></span> want to be treated.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgS7db_24hoVvukpdFnTRRnC5j14RQYWJ30STiX_jS_m4bts_As9qNRxDwSJih3BSPeFSJhI-OPOZVk_e1rlotggD8e5cuOMcdONF9zU9eH6GDmsz0_3y30nquNS-RDT3nBn985wQGmSn34/s1600/IMG00449.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgS7db_24hoVvukpdFnTRRnC5j14RQYWJ30STiX_jS_m4bts_As9qNRxDwSJih3BSPeFSJhI-OPOZVk_e1rlotggD8e5cuOMcdONF9zU9eH6GDmsz0_3y30nquNS-RDT3nBn985wQGmSn34/s320/IMG00449.jpg" /></a></div><span style="font-size: large;"><b>You make friends the same way you make lovers</b></span>. Treat someone you want contact with the same way you, yourself, would want to be treated.<br />
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If you're a guy and you want to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>show a girl you care about her</b></span>, then you show a soft, loving, caring, and compassionate <span style="font-size: large;"><b>side of yourself</b></span>.<br />
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We all have different<span style="font-size: large;"><b> feelings inside of us</b></span> and they are closely related to<span style="font-size: large;"><b> how we treat others</b></span>.<br />
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The <span style="font-size: large;"><b>better you treat others</b></span>, the<span style="font-size: large;"><b> better you yourself feel</b></span>.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Say</b></span> what you <b><span style="font-size: large;">mean</span></b>.<br />
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Do not<span style="font-size: large;"><b> lie</b></span> just to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>spare feelings</b></span>.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>It's better not to speak if only bad will be the end result.</b></span><br />
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Why <span style="font-size: large;"><b>bring bad</b></span> when the <span style="font-size: large;"><b>choice to</b></span> <span style="font-size: large;"><b>do right</b></span> is for the <span style="font-size: large;"><b>good of all</b></span>.<br />
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To hate others is <b><span style="font-size: large;">keeping in</span></b> the good. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Let out </b><span style="font-size: small;">the</span><b> <span style="font-size: large;">positive</span></b></span><span style="font-size: large;"><b> and reinforcing words into the world</b></span>, or negativity will come in to replace the good.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Let your light shine</b></span>, and bring peace and happiness.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Evil is only present when good is not around</b></span>.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Positivity repels Evil</b></span>.<br />
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The light is the only thing that brings <span style="font-size: large;"><b>clarity to see what is happening</b></span>.<br />
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Be <span style="font-size: large;"><b>cool to others</b></span> instead of just trying to piss people off.<br />
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Note: These are actual pictures of TN flying a 2meter at Kite point, Lake Hefner (Oklahoma City) 3-29-10. The best things in life are simple and free.Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-4808990263899564902010-03-25T15:08:00.000-05:002010-04-19T17:02:12.173-05:00Older Guys with StyleWe get a lot of <span style="font-size: large;"><b>older guy</b></span>s wanting to get back into the dating<span style="font-size: large;"><b> game</b></span>.<br />
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One of the biggest problems <span style="font-size: large;"><b>most of them</b></span> have is they are <span style="font-size: large;"><b>stuck</b></span> in their comfortable fashion of ten to<span style="font-size: large;"><b> twenty years ago</b></span>.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8pWWZUTGA1cbgfz80hSxXIbP38a3LRNekh7xS_ioRgTVRPB_08HvcubpzZfTjshnDbuohB_36N7KKBY_ZuIXx6UQ4HlmBaVi_ImynNp5nL8_XpsYqs3zUOfoYIX_qDOmYVVSd-jmrF7WN/s1600/cool_olderguy_1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8pWWZUTGA1cbgfz80hSxXIbP38a3LRNekh7xS_ioRgTVRPB_08HvcubpzZfTjshnDbuohB_36N7KKBY_ZuIXx6UQ4HlmBaVi_ImynNp5nL8_XpsYqs3zUOfoYIX_qDOmYVVSd-jmrF7WN/s1600/cool_olderguy_1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8pWWZUTGA1cbgfz80hSxXIbP38a3LRNekh7xS_ioRgTVRPB_08HvcubpzZfTjshnDbuohB_36N7KKBY_ZuIXx6UQ4HlmBaVi_ImynNp5nL8_XpsYqs3zUOfoYIX_qDOmYVVSd-jmrF7WN/s320/cool_olderguy_1.jpg" /></a></div>Here are some helpful <span style="font-size: large;"><b>style ideas</b></span> from guys that are older but with a sense of fashion. <br />
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Most of these are found over on <a href="http://thesartorialist.blogspot.com/2009_03_01_archive.html">thesartorialist.blogspot.com</a><br />
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Think about what you're <span style="font-size: large;"><b>REALLY</b></span> telling a guy.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>A</b></span>) 10% of the guys have been banging 90% of the women your entire life and <span style="font-size: large;"><b>you haven't been </b><span style="font-size: small;">in</span></span> the 10%<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>B</b></span>) <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Everything</b></span> that<span style="font-size: large;"><b> everyone</b></span>, including movies, culture, your parents, your friends, everyone you've ever known, including your girlfriends, has been wrong/bullshit.<br />
<span style="font-size: large;">C</span>) All those times your girl <span style="font-size: large;"><b>left you</b></span> or<span style="font-size: large;"><b> fucked some other guy</b></span> it's been <span style="font-size: large;"><b>EASY</b></span> for those guys simply because they had a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>little pickup knowledg</b></span>e, or they just naturally figured it out as a kid.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>D</b></span>) <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Everything you've been working for</b></span> your entire life.. cars/house/success/money/life has been a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>waste of time</b></span> because you can <span style="font-size: large;"><b>get the girl</b></span> of your dreams and<span style="font-size: large;"><b> keep her happy</b></span> with just some knowledge of how women <span style="font-size: large;"><b>actually</b></span> work.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>E</b></span>) You are a chump. Women, and those 10% of men, know it and have always known it.<br />
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This is a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>TOUGH</b></span> motherfucking pill to swallow.<br />
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The only thing that makes it worse is going out in the field and testing this stuff and getting girls, and nailing them on the same night, and their girlfriends. While their <span style="font-size: large;"><b><i>so sad</i></b></span> nice guy ex bf or bf is texting his <span style="font-size: large;"><b>I love you sooo much</b></span> messages to her. The same messages <span style="font-size: large;"><b>you've</b></span> sent plenty of. Then it dawns on you what your ex gf's were <span style="font-size: large;"><b>REALLY</b></span> doing while you were sending them and boo hooing. Once you've gotten over<span style="font-size: large;"><b> that</b></span> shock, the shades are <span style="font-size: large;"><b>lifted from your eyes</b></span>, and you're finally at one with how things<span style="font-size: large;"><b> REALLY</b></span> work. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>Some men</b></span> get to work and finally get their lives right.<span style="font-size: large;"><b> Some men</b></span> run screaming in <span style="font-size: large;"><b> pure revulsion</b></span> from the horror of the above realizations.<br />
The haters are mostly guys who <span style="font-size: large;"><b>want to keep believing</b></span> what the <span style="font-size: large;"><b> television and their mom</b></span> told them, to just "be yourself" and everyone will have a happy ending. They'll <span style="font-size: large;"><b>get what they always got</b></span>, and <span style="font-size: large;"><b>never understand</b></span> the truth.<br />
They'll keep hating "those fag jocks, man. They're fucking assholes. I don't understand why she's <span style="font-size: large;"><b>WITH</b><b> </b><span style="font-size: small;">those guys".</span></span> The chumps will never<span style="font-size: large;"><b> get in the gym</b></span> for six months, <span style="font-size: large;"><b>learn some pickup</b></span>, and go <span style="font-size: large;"><b>GET</b></span> the dreamgirl. They'll keep <span style="font-size: large;"><b>hoping</b></span> for miracles,<span style="font-size: large;"><b> hating</b></span> the successful guys, and <span style="font-size: large;"><b>shit talking</b></span> anyone who points out the tested, verified, reproducable results that pickup is comprised of.<br />
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When the early astronomers, "Galileo, Copernicus, etc", first started telling people that the Earth went around the Sun, the religeous people <span style="font-size: large;"><b> tried to silence, then kill them</b></span>. The astronomers were scientists though, and said "<span style="font-size: large;"><b>I don't care</b></span> if it shatters your world, your belief system, or your God. This is how shit <span style="font-size: large;"><b>REALLY</b></span> works."<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Pickup</b></span>: This is how shit <span style="font-size: large;"><b>REALLY</b></span> works.Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-69663812853027147462010-03-02T10:37:00.002-06:002010-04-19T17:02:12.173-05:00What a married man really wantsSo you've <span style="font-size: large;"><b>done it</b></span>. You've <span style="font-size: large;"><b>gamed</b></span> your ass off, became an <span style="font-size: large;"><b>alpha</b></span>, found the girl.<span style="font-size: large;"><b> Married</b></span> the girl.<br />
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You've got the house, the kids, the job, and the<span style="font-size: large;"><b> awesome wife</b></span> who you (omg) actually <span style="font-size: large;"><b>truly love</b></span>.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Now what?</b></span><br />
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Well, the best thing is, it's <b><span style="font-size: large;">up to you</span></b>. But. Even if everything is on track and you're really truly digging your kids and love your wife, it's<span style="font-size: large;"><b> easy to fall into a pattern</b></span>.<br />
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Falling into a pattern is easy to do. It's<span style="font-size: large;"><b> your job</b></span> to <span style="font-size: large;"><b>break it up</b></span> so it doesn't<span style="font-size: large;"><b> become one</b></span>. This goes not only for taking care of yourself with exercise and adventures, but also in keeping your relationship in the <span style="font-size: large;"><b>proper man/woman perspective</b></span>.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>No girl</b></span> wants to spend her life with some<span style="font-size: large;"><b> boring old dude</b></span>, so<span style="font-size: large;"><b> don't</b></span> become that. <br />
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If you want more sex,<span style="font-size: large;"><b> make it happen</b></span>. If you want a sloppy blowjob for father's day, don't ask for clothes or a new set of socket wrenches. <span style="font-size: large;"><b>You are the man</b></span> and part of that is <span style="font-size: large;"><b>letting her know</b></span> what you <span style="font-size: large;"><b>really want.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Suffering</b></span> because you don't get what you want makes you <span style="font-size: large;"><b>resent her</b></span>. If she's great enough to marry, she's great enough to<span style="font-size: large;"><b> not deserve your resentment</b></span>. She<span style="font-size: large;"><b> deserves better</b><b>afraid to ask</b></span> than a pissy, bitch ass husband that is for what he <span style="font-size: large;"><b>REALLY WANTS</b></span>.<br />
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Here's <span style="font-size: large;"><b>one man's</b></span> Fathers day request:<br />
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Every year you ask what I want for Father's Day with the kids (conveniently?) sitting right in front of us, and every year I provide G-rated suggestions because (call me a prude) its sorta not appropriate to ask for sexual favors in front of the kids. So in the off chance you're reading the rants or looking for a poolboy, even though we don't have a pool, here's what I really want: <br />
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I want to wake up to you sucking my cock. Defined, this means that I'm asleep and you go down on me while I'm asleep, not after 45 minutes of me pretending to be asleep and dreaming of winning the blow job lottery. Please skip the requisite if-I-have-to sigh and eye rolling for one day. <br />
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I want a breakfast including eggs, bacon, and fresh fruit. No carb-packed wheat-byproducts, nothing frozen, nothing out of a box, and especially nothing in individually wrapped servings. <br />
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I want to have a fun day doing anything except what is on the honey-do list. Anything on the do-honey list is perfectly OK. <br />
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Examples: <br />
Giving me grief while watching Nascar Sunday is not a good idea. <br />
Giving me head while watching Nascar Sunday is a great idea. <br />
Asking me to dig some holes in the backyard is not a good idea. <br />
Asking me to plug your hole in your backdoor is a great idea. <br />
Taking the kids out for a while and letting me nap would be nice. <br />
Taking my cock out and sucking it after my nap would be nicer. <br />
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For dinner, I want a slab of red meat. Fresh, premium, not shrink wrapped. BBQ'd, not nuked or broiled. Rare. So rare a good veterinarian can revive it. A tall, cold beer. And fresh vegetables on the side, although it's unlikely I'll eat them, so I don't know why I bothered mentioning them. <br />
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After the kiddies are asleep, I want sex. Uninhibited, sweaty, porn star sex. Gone for the night is the bored housewife in boring clothes reading a boring book, I am going to be the dominant male and you to be my submissive anything-to-please-daddy fuck-slut. <br />
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I want you wearing something erotic. Defined, 'erotic' includes leather, lace, high heels, crotchless, racy, etc. 'Erotic' probably includes that thing you bought for Valentines Day two years ago that never made it out of the drawer. 'Erotic' does not include baggy jammies, grandma underwear, furry slippers, sweatpants, sweatshirts, sweatsocks, or the asexual garments you wear the other 364 days. <br />
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I want my cock sucked again, deep throated, like you can't get enough, and when I cum, I want you to savor it like it's Godiva white chocolate. Don't give me that 'it tastes funny'crap; lick it up and suck it up and smile all the way. <br />
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I want you fucking me like its the last dick you'll be getting for a while. Acceptable positions are on your knees, on top, doggie style, bent over, hanging from the ceiling, pretty much anything except missionary on the bed. Slap your ass cheeks, rub your clit, pinch your nipples, talk dirty, suck me often, and most importantly, finger your ass. Finger your ass until its ready for my cock, then beg for my cock up your ass and fuck it like you did with your pussy. <br />
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When I cum, yes, I'm cumming in your ass. I don't care if you get the runs tomorrow, I am cumming in your ass. Because it feels great. And then I'll fuck your ass until I'm limp and resigned to waiting another 365 days to tap your ass again. <br />
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Because Dear Wife, it's Father's Day, my day, and that's what I really want.Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17656946773890478841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8449309564288250871.post-54806513481868121212010-02-12T17:23:00.007-06:002010-04-19T17:08:56.257-05:0099 Problems<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Benjamin Franklin</b></span>, our ambassador to France in the 1700's, had<span style="font-size: large;"><b> put on some weight</b></span> since his last visit.<br />
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A woman said to him "<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Benjamin</b></span>! What would you say if that belly was on a <span style="font-size: large;"><b>woman</b></span>?" <br />
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He <span style="font-size: large;"><b>smiled</b></span> politely and replied "Madam, twenty minutes ago this belly <span style="font-size: large;"><b>WAS</b></span> on a woman."<br />
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