TBL Crew answers Roissy game test

The always excellent Roissy in DC occasionally posts a feature called "A Test of Your Game" where he sets up dating scenario shit tests that women will run on you, and invites his readers to answer them.

Seems like an interesting way to get a feel for your TBL authors by publishing both the question and our individual answers.

Here's his test scenario: Tonight, you are meeting a woman at a bar.
The woman is someone you’ve been dating for a few months. Expectations have been established. Not firm rules, but slowly congealing guidelines for acceptable behavior. She tells you she will be at this bar tonight with a former co-worker, a man you’ve never met, and she wants you to come out and meet her at the bar.

You say “Yeah, I’ll swing by later.” You’re an alpha; everything is always later.

When you arrive at the entrance of the bar, you spot your girl across the room. She's sitting on a barstool between two men. There are no other empty stools near them. They are all laughing and drinking amongst themselves. Your girl is looking good, her bright red lipstick a beacon in the dim bar light. They haven’t noticed you yet. You watch them for a second before proceeding into the room, dispassionately curious about their dynamic. Soon you will walk toward them – the two men flanking your woman whose vagina you have penetrated repeatedly and vigorously – with intentions to introduce yourself. You don’t know which of the men is her former co-worker, or who the other man might be. In fact, you don’t know anything of their synergy, but that you see their smiles and hear their laughter. You begin walking to them.  What do you do?

Bon's Response:

First, when she told me she would be there with an old co-worker, I’d ask her “Oh, is he gay?”
Her: No, blah blah
Me: Oh, well you guys have fun. I’ve got shit to do.
Her: What? It’s not like that..blah blha
Me: Cool, ya, later.
Now, at this point she knows I’m not even going to START to fucking play with that bullshit and disrespect. I don’t care if it’s Jesus Christ returned.
She is a woman. She knows for GOT DAMN sure that isn’t cool. Even if it is a gay friend (which it isn’t), it’s a minimum a shit test, at medium a feeler on what she can pull with a guy she actually DOES want to fuck, and at most you’re already toast and she’s been letting that guy flirt/hit it for some time.
I wouldn’t even call her when she sends the “What’s wrong?” “Why are you being this way?” texts over the course of the night.
If you’ve been laying the pipe correctly (brutally and regularly for the first couple months) she’ll get the drama she’s craving by pulling this shit, from the worrying about you all night and how mad you are. Those guys’ game won’t match the gina tingle (Roissy TM) the drama gives her. DON’T ANSWER HER TEXTS. Short of her showing up at your house (where you dick her to death), she blew her communication privileges for the night, and maybe the next day or two.
When you DO talk to her in a day or two, you play it cool and alpha. Now she KNOWS two things.
A) You don’t give a FUCK.
B) She is replaceable
C) You don’t play when girls try that scandalous ass bullshit. You see it, and you know it, and  you don’t play.

The Natural's  Response:

Stop Masturbating

Masturbation is hurting your game.

That's right, I said it. If you are spanking it during the day, and going out at night, you aren't hungry. You might think you are hungry, you might really want to eat, but you aren't STARVING.  You aren't ready to to go knife to fucking throat against other men who ARE starving.

As Americans, we hardly ever REALLY feel true starvation hunger. Most of us never will. As a human man, you come from a long, long line of cave men that did WHATEVER IT TAKES to get fed. The descendants of the ones that did not, are no longer with us.

I spank it, you spank it, it feels good. It's also lazy. If you want the hunger, if you want the edge, you must fast on game day. If you're gaming tonight, you're not spanking today.

If you want more women in your life, you have to be fucking RUTHLESS.  Just like the last three reps of the set are the ones where the gains are, it's that tough approach with bad logistics that turns into the date with the amazing girl.

Your caveman hunter forefathers knew that the man staying out till the absolute last wisp of daylight tracking the deer was the one that always got a little more. He WANTED it. He EARNED it, he WILL NOT STOP. His mind and his WILL gave him success.

She's sitting with her two ugly girlfriends in a quiet coffee shop? Fuck you. Go open them.

She's the checker at the grocery store and you'll be embarrassed if she shoots you down? Fuck you. Open her.

She's jogging past you in the opposite direction? OPEN HER.

If you aren't hungry, it's so easy to tell yourself "She's not all THAT cute, I've already got a date this weekend, Who cares if she's got the greatest smile on Earth..."

Fuck you. Stop spanking it. Go HUNT.

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On Phone Numbers

You're goal should always be at LEAST a makeout, NOT the number.

Her phone number is a consolation prize. The bronze medal. You are a GOLD MEDAL guy. Locate your balls, strap them on, make it happen. 

To paraphrase the great Rooshv, "A guy that gets a makeout on the first meet, will have a second date that looks like the third date of a regular guy."

You're brain will tell you "Yeah, but what if I come off as a creep, or pushy, etc..etc..?"  Chances are, you are no where NEAR the limit of what she's cool with.

When was the last time you got slapped for pushing too hard? Can't remember? It's not because you are such a nice quality guy, it's because you have no idea where the limits really are. You can't know until you get a feel for the edge.

MotoGP superbike motorcycle racers have a saying. "If you don't crash, you're not going fast enough." This holds true for pickup. Test the limits. If you get resistance, back off a bit. But do it a couple times with a couple different women. Get a feel for where the limit REALLY is. You're eyes will be opened by how much faster and further you can escalate. If you are confident and fun with it, she will go with it, and have fun too.

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Her: "Wow, we're moving really fast."
You: (Strong eye contact) "You know, every passionate relationship I've ever had began passionately."
Her: *Smoochdown*

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The New Pink

If you haven't noticed, you're probably waiting for me to tell you this.
The hot pink and black trend is so in, straight guys can pull it off.

I'm obviously talking about hipsters or scene kids that have a questionable sexuality. So if you aren't comfortable with yours, don't wear it.

"Don't knock it until others do or you get your ass kicked a couple of times.  Until you've tried it... just don't knock it. You never know who likes it around you."

Oh, and compliment a girl if you see her wearing hot pink and black.

Here's why:
From my vast expertise in the color wheel, these colors are so far opposite that the pairs'
pop make me have an epileptic seizure.

Seizure Footage  (By the way, you're sick if you tried to click on the Seizure Footage.)

Socks and Slacks.

Listen up before a gay guy has to let you know this.

For some this isn't a big deal, for others it is.

Socks match your slacks, not your shoes.

It doesn't have to match exactly, just within three shades.

You don't have to be gay to know art. Thanks.

Twenty Seconds

Saw this post on a women's dating blog.  It's a woman talking about how they know within twenty seconds if they are going to sleep with you or not.

"We know within 20 seconds. no, we don't know if we will marry you. But, we do know if we will have sex with you.
I can personally see a man on the street, look at him without having spoken a word to him, and know if i would have sex with him. If a woman has a general idea of what she is physically attracted to in a man, its an easy 20 second thought process. She looks, she contemplates, and she decides. Several guys i know could get it, based solely on attractiveness. It's when they start talking that the problems happen, but that is a whole 'nother blog."


Spoke to a few trusted female friends and they all confirmed this to be absolutely true 90% of the time.

Holy shit!

What does this mean to the game crowd? Does this mean game isn't important? I thought men were visual and women were emotional/verbal. So it actually IS all about looks?

Settle down. It is, but it isn't. Twenty seconds is a LONG time really. A guy knows if he's attracted in under five seconds. Here's the twenty second process for a woman:

I see him. :
1) Am I surprised by him in some way (we physically bump into each other, he pokes/playfully  pushes/evokes an instant physical sensation that immediately creates sexual tension in my body that I can FEEL) If yes, then shortcut to attracted. If no, then begin logical evaluation.

2) Is he healthy looking? If yes, continue evaluation. If no, not attracted.

3) Is his body language good? If yes, 1/3 of attraction now complete. Continue evaluation. If no, ignore/screen.

4) Does he demonstrate non verbal equal or higher value than myself? (Good style, having fun, standing with other people of high value, cool guy friends/cute girls, etc.). If yes, 2/3 of attraction now complete. If no, screen (screening meaning shit tests, bitch shield, etc.)

5) Does he look like someone I could be seen with at a minimum, and best case I could impress my social circle by being with? If yes, attraction complete. If not, ignore.

This isn't that high of a bar really. Notice it didn't say "Is he a stud? Is he hot? etc." It really says "Does he meet the physical MINIMUM to LET MYSELF be attracted to him. If you don't pass these, she typically will not ALLOW herself to be attracted to you.

Even if you have GQ model looks, if you strike her as douchebag/sleazy/greasy then you have failed one of the steps (in this case #4&5) and she won't allow herself to be gamed by you.

At this point, it's in your hand to move through the rest of the emotional progression towards sex/dating.

(Diagram courtesy Love systems)