The Bachelor Life's Guide to Cockblocking Your Buddies

There are some unwritten friend rules that guys have to live by.

One of the lesser known ones is the beer goggle cockblock.

If you see your buddy wrapped up in the tentacles of a monster, PULL HIM AWAY.

He will get upset.  He will want to fight you. He will tell you to fuck off. Pull him away anyway. He will thank you tomorrow.

Now, this sounds like an easy thing to do, but it can be tough. You just push through that mental bullshit that will hit you like "He's a big boy, he can handle it." or "Damn, that is SO FUNNY." It's NOT funny. When your buddies are messing around with monsters, it devalues YOU. Maybe not at this party, but the next one.

People remember that your "group" has that guy in it that nailed that monster. If you think girls don't know who's fucking who, and who is friends them, then you're kidding yourself. Don't lose the friend, save him.

Here are some helpful examples:

Being Goofy

If you boil pickup and seduction down to the absolute root base, it's this:

Become and expert in how to feel good.

Feel good yourself, and people will gravitate to you. Be an expert in making them feel great about themselves and being around you in general, and you will succeed in women, work, life, and everything else.

Being goofy and fun is not lowering your value, it's increasing it because you are increasing the good feelings surrounding you and them.

Here are some pictures to get you in the proper goofy, fun mood.

Ten dollar date flowchart

So you're still paying off Christmas, or you're smart and just bought that car/motorcycle because they are cheapest this time of the year.

OH NO!! A Date!! And she's cute!! What to do???

I suggest you take filife.com's advice and consult the below ten dollar date flow chart. It is TBL approved.

An American tragedy

This picture sums up a lot of what's wrong with America.

If you see this happening, or you see your sister/friendgirl stuck with a bunch of monsters, try to at least invite her out to get her away from them. If someone doesn't, she's going to get sucked into that self reinforcing negative energy circle and turn into a monster with them.  These people love nothing more than taking a halfway normal/cute girl and dragging her down to Hell with them.

Mistakes? What mistakes! ;D

Be not ashamed of mistakes and thus make them crimes.

Confucius

Occasionally, we all make mistakes. You'll say the wrong thing. You'll think of nothing to say, and later l'esprit d'escalier kicks in. I promise you, it doesn't matter.

These "mistakes" form the basis of greatness, invention and mastery. Your aim? Forgive yourself for any past mistakes, and conquer them! Take some classes, read some more posts, get out in the field, and do it again :D

In my early days of Day Game, I sucked! I'd approach, ask for directions, and try and hook from there. I was stuck! For all my confidence, I could not see the mistake I was making. I had to step back, return to my social circle, and observe... The key? Not the opener. Not the speech. The smile.

After a short break, I retried. I approach the same quality of sets, in the same location. I held conversations, kept it light hearted and completed by first Day Game #close.

At the moment, I'm writing a free downloadable guide for you guys on Social Circle game, and I'm working on a project of my own ;)

Paradox

The Seventh

I don't know about you but it is pay day and the only thing I can think about spending my money on is rewarding my self for working hard! So, if you are out there running your own business or getting paid to do the work for someone Else's business, I say give your self props!

If you know a lazy person that is capable of work and doesn't have any money and just doesn't want to work to pay off their bills... Good luck to them, they will need it!

my favorite quote applies here,

"America, your free but that sandwich is about tree fiddy."
TN-

Ten Rules of Feeling Good

1. Make yourself feel good first.
2. Never try to make anyone feel bad.
3. Try to make everyone around you feel good.
4. Making other people around you feel good makes YOU feel good. Even making others feel good is a semi-selfish gesture.
5. You NEVER sacrifice your own good feelings to make another person feel good.
6. You don't feel negative emotions, except when doing so makes you feel good.
7. You don't try to fix problems. You try to make people feel better about them.
8. If it's not your job, don't try to go logical or problem solve issues around. It's not fun.
9. Never look down on anything. Be indifferent about stuff that you don't like.
10. If you're failing to keep one of those rules, that's okay as long as you keep the appearance that you're following them.

The ideal kind of fun comes from a leader who engages in "mutual value escalation".  This is where someone makes someone else feel good, and themselves feel good at the same time.

Why do women love gay guys so much? They follow the feel-good plan, and mutually value escalate A LOT.

Example: "OH-MY-GOD! You're SO Pretty!"