Her phone number is a consolation prize. The bronze medal. You are a GOLD MEDAL guy. Locate your balls, strap them on, make it happen.
To paraphrase the great Rooshv, "A guy that gets a makeout on the first meet, will have a second date that looks like the third date of a regular guy."
You're brain will tell you "Yeah, but what if I come off as a creep, or pushy, etc..etc..?" Chances are, you are no where NEAR the limit of what she's cool with.
When was the last time you got slapped for pushing too hard? Can't remember? It's not because you are such a nice quality guy, it's because you have no idea where the limits really are. You can't know until you get a feel for the edge.
MotoGP superbike motorcycle racers have a saying. "If you don't crash, you're not going fast enough." This holds true for pickup. Test the limits. If you get resistance, back off a bit. But do it a couple times with a couple different women. Get a feel for where the limit REALLY is. You're eyes will be opened by how much faster and further you can escalate. If you are confident and fun with it, she will go with it, and have fun too.
Her: "Wow, we're moving really fast."
You: (Strong eye contact) "You know, every passionate relationship I've ever had began passionately."
Her: *Smoochdown*
I am assuming you are talking solely night game, b/c day game a makeout is pretty much unheard of upon cold approach. Anyway, if you are able to get a solid makeout I would estimate then 95% of the time you should be able to get a makeout. Of course there are always exceptions.
ReplyDeleteI love making out with girls at bars. It's such a feeling of triumph. I'm just having a harder time getting phone numbers lately with DirtyPhoneBook making giving out your number to anybody a legitimate risk. But you should definitely always try to close the deal with some physical action instead of just getting the digits.
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