The ugly truth about attractive women

This is going to hurt.

The below hold true for most women in varying degrees as a direct function of how attractive they are. On average, truly ugly woman may only have a few of these traits, however, truly hot women typically have most of these and more.

The difference really stems from how much of a sociopath they have been allowed to be since they were young. If you are beautiful, you have almost zero real consequences to your actions regardless of how evil or self centered they are. If you constantly do whatever you want and have literally ninety percent of the planet waiting in line to be near you regardless, it tends to warp your sense of right and wrong. The only wrong things are things that don't make you happy.

You may at first glance believe that this is simply a bitter man making things up, however women, and men who are around a lot of attractive women, will recognize their accuracy immediately.

As a man, you must ask yourself "Is this what I want?" Every man struggles with this. We all want a Ferrari, but we don't want the headaches and cost. None of us want the base model Ford, but we love the zero maintenance and that it's paid off. No one said it's easy kid. - Bon

(Below is from the epic post by Mark over at The Better Beta.)


1.  They don’t love you.  They are in love with love.
Those doughy eyes that glow forth with a passion that could traverse the whole of space and time come as standard as seatbelts in a minivan.  It was already in them long before you walked into the picture.  You’re not special, you just happened to meet them when they had an opening.  They are determined to fall in love and be in love, and you simply fit the bill for now.  If they can get you to marry them, they win.  If not, they have yet another story of an immature man who was scared of commitment to bitch about.  Either way, they win.
2.  "Just As I Am.”
You must take her as she is.  Any due diligence, shit testing, or investigation on your part will be met with hostility most foul.  She is unique, special, more than you deserve, and altogether lovely.  You will take her just as she is, or you’re an inconsiderate immature asshole.  She’ll work on your numerous faults later, after you acknowledge this eternal truth.
3.  They think they’re smarter than you.
They know your faults, they know how much of a bitch your mom and sister are, and they know exactly what you should do about it.  They control the relationship, and you’re nothing but a pawn in their sick chess game.  Right now, the only game is to get you to commit forever.  After that, their unbridled wisdom will be granted to you on a daily basis and forcefully applied to every aspect of your life.
4.  Most of the time, they actually are smarter than you.
He may not always go down without a fight, but he usually goes down.  You wouldn’t believe the shit these girls get their guys to do.  Amazing, and sad.
5.  It is indeed your fault.
Every instance where she’s gone up against an Alpha with a backbone and lost (got hurt) is your fault, and you will pay greatly to ensure the remission of his sins.  Every argument is directly related to your lack of communication and understanding.  Even the 2% of arguments you think you’ve won are merely her granting you a win because of your stunted, ill man brain.
6.  There’s a difference between getting married and being married.
At a ratio of 1,000 to 1, I hear conversations about getting married versus actually being married.  She wants the party, the handsome groom, and all eyes on her.  She’ll have plenty of time to whip you into shape after the fact.  She owns your ass then, so married life should be a grand adventure for her and doesn’t require an ounce of thought from her pretty little head.  She can always leave you and take your kids and half your shit if it doesn’t work out.  So really, outdoing her bitch best friend’s ceremony and reception is all that matters.
7.  Sex is an important aspect of love…and lust…and boredom…and learning…and growing…and expression…and revenge…and power…and loneliness…and happiness…and sadness…and self validation…and tropical vacations…and down time between boyfriends…etc.
Need I say more?  Chances are your sweetheart is more than a few locker room stories.  I have learned that the “rule of two”, which is dividing the partners a man claims by two, and multiplying the number the girl claims by two may not always hold true – many of them think they are still a virgin if they’re under 20 partners. However, I can certainly confirm that “blow jobs don’t count”.  So she may have “only” slept with 18 men, but that doesn’t account for all the dick that’s entered her body in one form or another.  Of course, you’d come closer to finding Jesus Christ in line for a Starbucks at the mall than you would finding out the truth about her cock intake by asking, so just listen for clues and form your own opinion.
8.  They show you off just as much as you show them off.
They don’t ask their friends “what do you think of him?” because they want an earnest opinion.  They ask because they want to make their girlfriends jealous.  If they don’t see the envy in their friend’s eyes, you’re gone, buddy.
9.  You will comply with her every wish, or you’re a selfish jerk.
50/50 partnership my ass.  Its her way or you’re out…once she has your replacement in her pocket, of course.
10.  Women give each other the worst dating advice imaginable.
I could write a book about the stupid shit I hear.  My favorite is that when you find a man who could be “the one”, hold out on him in the bedroom for three months.  Make him chase you for a while so that – and this is a direct quote – “he won’t think you’re trampy”.
11.  They lie.  My god, they lie.
The moment they feel something, it becomes truth.  The moment something no longer tickles their emotions, it becomes a falsehood.  They will lie, manipulate, and do whatever it takes to get what they want and honestly think nothing of it.  After all, it can’t be a lie or manipulation if they’re being true to themselves (thanks Oprah).  And as for how it affects the man, it matters not.  Remember, they’re smarter than you, and their growth benefits you too.  You should really thank her.
12.  They hate your single friends.
The most positive thing I’ve heard about a man’s single friends in my three years at that company is “he’s ok, I guess, but [boyfriend] needs to distance himself from him because he’s not going in the same direction we are”.  I could go on for ages with all the nasty things I’ve heard, and the plots to disassociate a man from a good friend he’s had since middle school.
13.  They hate their own friends.

As King of the world, I would ban women from talking about how aggressive and hateful men are.  Women are the most scheming, backbiting, twisted creatures on the planet.  They actually hate their friends and are overcome with jealousy when anything good happens to their peers.  I always have at least one trying to get the other fired…right before they go have their nails done together over lunch break.  This is really the only time I actually find myself afraid of women.  Their evil knows no bounds, and damn it, it scares me.
14.  They overvalue themselves.
Many women literally think that God Almighty himself stepped out of nowhere onto nothing and created the universe just for them.  They believe they are inimitable, distinctive creatures who should be referenced as a glowing and obvious example of all that a woman should be.  When they say “You’ll never find another woman like me!” they actually believe it wholeheartedly.  There is no one quite like them.  They are irreplaceable, and if you’re not smart enough to recognize it, you’ll undoubtedly live a life of solitude and regret before dying a lonely old man with no one to take care of him.
15.  Their perfect man will be greatly rewarded.  Then eaten.
From what I’ve seen, the poor Beta men who comply with this laundry list of horse shit are heroes and become the standard by which their girlfriend’s friends will judge their potential suitors.  But that only lasts for about two months until they get tired of his capitulating pansy ass and start longing for a real man to keep them in check.  Then they devour the Beta carcass and head out looking for an Alpha to treat them badly so they have something to bitch about again.